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Treatment Options

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Are You Looking for Help with Anxiety, Stress or Unhappiness?

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Perhaps You:

  • have panic attacks if you drive too far from home, and want to quit your job every day

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  • have a baby and are terrified to leave her at day care, and cry every day at work

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  • feel unhappy in your marriage, but terrified about what life would be like on your own

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  • were raised by a narcissistic parent (or one you suspect was narcissistic) and feel overwhelmed and alone with the problem

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Perhaps Your Child:

  • can't fall asleep at night unless she sleeps with you, so you don't sleep

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  • clings to you every morning before school, petrified you won’t show up for pick-up, and you are late for work

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  • has a meltdown every evening when it's time to get ready for bed

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Perhaps Your Teen:

  • doesn’t talk to you, breaks down in tears, screams, tells you nothing is wrong, and hasn’t gone to school for 2 weeks

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  • has not seen a friend on a weekend for months, and feels too shy to call anyone

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  • after applying to college, only gets into his “safety school” and feels like a complete failure

If You're an Adult with a Narcissistic Parent You May:

  • struggle to set limits with your parent, caught between a sense of loyalty and the need to take care of yourself or your own family

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  • wonder if you are “crazy” because of how interactions with your parent make you feel

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  • may feel terrible or even ashamed when others tell you they are looking forward to spending time with their parents

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  • find you can’t stop hearing your parent’s critical voice, even if he or she has been dead for many years

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  • mostly, you feel alone, and that is almost impossible that anyone else could understand your story

THERAPY FOR ADULT CHILD- PARENT ESTRANGEMENT

Did you know that research shows that 27% of Americans are estranged from a family member?  Ten percent of American parents are cut off from an adult child (from Fault Lines: Fractured Families and How to Mend Them by Karl Pillemer, 2020).

Although family estrangement is a surprisingly common problem, as the parent of an adult child who has gone “no contact” or has minimized contact, you can feel:

  • Alone and isolated

  • Ashamed or embarrassed

  • Terrified you will never again have a relationship with your adult child or grandchildren

  • Angry and poorly treated

  • Confused—not knowing what  you did wrong

  • Helpless

  • Depressed and anxious

  • Unable to function as you used to

  • Undeserving of estrangement

 And most of all, desperate to have your adult child back in your life.

 

Adult Child/Parent therapy offers hope to heal the rift.  For parents, Adult Child/Parent therapy can help you move from feeling confused and helpless to having a roadmap of steps to heal the relationship with your adult child.

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STEPS OF ADULT CHILD/PARENT THERAPY

 

  1. Education about estrangement.

  2. Reviewing history to understand why this estrangement happened, from your adult child’s perspective.

  3. Helping you write a “letter of amends,” an essential key to opening communication and possible reconciliation.

  4. Dr. Kriesberg, if appropriate, contacting the adult child to open communication and an invitation to meet  on their own or with parent/s.

  5. Therapy sessions with the adult child and parent or parents for the purpose of hearing each other and determining if the future can look different from what is happening now.

 

Unfortunately, there are no guarantees that therapy will heal the estrangement with your adult child.  However, even if the cut-off does not change, as a parent you will learn ways to understand and grieve your loss.  Most importantly, you can find compassion and understanding for yourself.  You’ll take steps to move forward in your life, no matter how hard that seems.

 

Find out if Adult Child/Parent therapy is right for you by contacting Dr. Kriesberg for a free 15-minute consultation.

Get in Touch

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747 Main St., Suite 126

Concord Professional Bldg

Concord, MA 01742

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